Kind [of a] B!*ch
Society loves to label people who are bold, confident, and direct as ”bitches”. But here’s the thing—shrinking to avoid that label doesn’t serve you or anyone else. This podcast is about owning your strength, speaking up, and showing up fully as yourself. For most of my life, I cared deeply about what people thought of me. I was the “good, nice girl,” which worked… to an extent. When I pivoted from a career as a professional performer to the cutthroat world of real estate, I struggled with this fear of being called a name for being bold and direct. But I learned that showing up as my authentic self—unapologetically bold—wasn’t just freeing; it was the key to success for me and my clients. This podcast is for anyone who’s tired of shrinking themselves to fit other people’s expectations. Whether you’re rebuilding your confidence, stepping into leadership, or just figuring out how to say “no” without guilt, this is the space for you. We’ll dive into stories of transformation—mine, and those of incredible guests who’ve rewired their mindsets and communication styles to make big moves. I’ll share tools and insights to help you show up bigger and bolder in your own life, and, spoiler alert: there might be ruffle some feathers along the way. If you’re ready to stop apologizing for taking up space and start owning your power, this podcast is for you. Follow along and let’s rewrite the rules—together. Liz Hake is a Seattle-based multi-hyphenate...From performing on stages around the world, to building a successful real estate practice, speaking from stages and leading her clients on their road towards engaging and authentic communication is the name of the game.
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The truth about self love and discipline.
What are we getting confused about those two things? Are they opposites? Or are they partners?
How can adding novelty can recharge ordinary things?
How can showing up in more active ways can actually be recharging?
How do we show up when we don't want to?
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
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Tuesday Jul 08, 2025
Tuesday Jul 08, 2025
Today's buzzwords are all about authenticity and vulnerability. But does too much vulnerability start to look unprofessional?
As a fellow oversharer, deep conversation haver, and somewhat open book with those I meet, learning to discern when vulnerability was appropriate was a journey.
We're talking about the fine line between sharing enough to be "human" while still being a Leader and maintaining a professional persona, especially in the workplace.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Tuesday Jul 01, 2025
Tuesday Jul 01, 2025
We've all been there. Working hard on our personal growth journey only to get completely thrown off course and think:
"Wait I thought I was over this?"
Is it a backslide? A regression perhaps?
I'm sharing about my own personal experience with a backslide and what happened to finally snap me out of it.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Soft Girl vs Bad B!*ch... which one are you?!
In today's episode we're going to talk about the necessity of needing BOTH. I have often felt this push/pull between the two archetypes and I am over it. The power of being able to access both is the name of the game.
If you've ever felt "too sensitive" or "too much" this episode is your permission slip to be ALL of it.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
What would happen if you gave just a little extra?
A little more time? Additional attention? An unnecessary thank you note? A little extra magic?
Today we're talking about a few of the principles in Will Guidara's book "Unreasonable Hospitality" and how they can be applied, no matter what your career choice or life look like.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Let's be clear... This one's for me.
It's the season where we look at our socials and see everybody seemingly going on multiple european vacations, making money from a sailboat, or enjoying lazy days while apparently running massive businesses.
It can be hard to follow the routine when it feels like some folks have achieved something so special! What I'm learning however is that more freedom requires more structure and there are ways to start implementing it.
Let's Go!
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
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Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
After a few (what I like to call) sad girl days in a row, I thought to myself "there has to be some quick tips to turn these days around."
I'm not talking about crisis or grief... I'm talking about a FUNK.
While I am a huge proponent of sitting with emotions, feeling into them, and taking time to rest, we know that continuing to be a functioning member of society does not always allow that kind of flexibility. Today I'm sharing some research from Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor about the 4 brain characters, as well as some tips to help move your mindset out of the depths of a funk.
You'll also hear a number of ideas from listeners and followers that you can perhaps use yourself!
Read more about Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor HERE
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
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Tuesday May 27, 2025
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Ever looked at someone in your life and think "lucky b!*ch."?
Someone who always seems to stumble upon good fortune?
The butterfly effect trend online has me thinking about luck and how or IF we can cultivate more of it. Want to become a lucky b!*tch? Listen in!
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Monday May 19, 2025
Monday May 19, 2025
There are fewer things that sting more than being GHOSTED... But what about when it's professional vs personal?
Today I'm sharing my own stories of being professionally ghosted as well as some of the mindset and strategies to avoid and recover from the same fate.
Got any professional ghosting stories we can read? Send them to admin@lizhake.com.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
Follow on Instagram: @liz.hake
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Monday May 12, 2025
Monday May 12, 2025
Ever notice yourself navigating guilt, discomfort, or insecurity after setting a boundary? Today, we're talking about it.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
Follow on Instagram: @liz.hake
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