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This episode is for the anxious ones. The people who like to over explain, justify, or provide additional PROOF when a simple \"no\" would suffice.

Today we'll talk about the pressure to perform when setting a boundary. That urge to educate and explain shows up fast, especially when we are concerned with perception.

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This episode is for the anxious ones. The people who like to over explain, justify, or provide additional PROOF when a simple \"no\" would suffice.

Today we'll talk about the pressure to perform when setting a boundary. That urge to educate and explain shows up fast, especially when we are concerned with perception.