Kind [of a] B!*ch
Society loves to label people who are bold, confident, and direct as ”bitches”. But here’s the thing—shrinking to avoid that label doesn’t serve you or anyone else. This podcast is about owning your strength, speaking up, and showing up fully as yourself. For most of my life, I cared deeply about what people thought of me. I was the “good, nice girl,” which worked… to an extent. When I pivoted from a career as a professional performer to the cutthroat world of real estate, I struggled with this fear of being called a name for being bold and direct. But I learned that showing up as my authentic self—unapologetically bold—wasn’t just freeing; it was the key to success for me and my clients. This podcast is for anyone who’s tired of shrinking themselves to fit other people’s expectations. Whether you’re rebuilding your confidence, stepping into leadership, or just figuring out how to say “no” without guilt, this is the space for you. We’ll dive into stories of transformation—mine, and those of incredible guests who’ve rewired their mindsets and communication styles to make big moves. I’ll share tools and insights to help you show up bigger and bolder in your own life, and, spoiler alert: there might be ruffle some feathers along the way. If you’re ready to stop apologizing for taking up space and start owning your power, this podcast is for you. Follow along and let’s rewrite the rules—together. Liz Hake is a Seattle-based multi-hyphenate...From performing on stages around the world, to building a successful real estate practice, speaking from stages and leading her clients on their road towards engaging and authentic communication is the name of the game.
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Jun 10, 2025
Jun 10, 2025
52 min
Let's be clear... This one's for me.
It's the season where we look at our socials and see everybody seemingly going on multiple european vacations, making money from a sailboat, or enjoying lazy days while apparently running massive businesses.
It can be hard to follow the routine when it feels like some folks have achieved something so special! What I'm learning however is that more freedom requires more structure and there are ways to start implementing it.
Let's Go!
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
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Jun 3, 2025
Jun 3, 2025
41 min
After a few (what I like to call) sad girl days in a row, I thought to myself "there has to be some quick tips to turn these days around."
I'm not talking about crisis or grief... I'm talking about a FUNK.
While I am a huge proponent of sitting with emotions, feeling into them, and taking time to rest, we know that continuing to be a functioning member of society does not always allow that kind of flexibility. Today I'm sharing some research from Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor about the 4 brain characters, as well as some tips to help move your mindset out of the depths of a funk.
You'll also hear a number of ideas from listeners and followers that you can perhaps use yourself!
Read more about Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor HERE
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
Follow on Instagram: @liz.hake
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May 27, 2025
May 27, 2025
42 min
Ever looked at someone in your life and think "lucky b!*ch."?
Someone who always seems to stumble upon good fortune?
The butterfly effect trend online has me thinking about luck and how or IF we can cultivate more of it. Want to become a lucky b!*tch? Listen in!
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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May 19, 2025
May 19, 2025
34 min
There are fewer things that sting more than being GHOSTED... But what about when it's professional vs personal?
Today I'm sharing my own stories of being professionally ghosted as well as some of the mindset and strategies to avoid and recover from the same fate.
Got any professional ghosting stories we can read? Send them to admin@lizhake.com.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
Follow on Instagram: @liz.hake
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May 12, 2025
May 12, 2025
31 min
Ever notice yourself navigating guilt, discomfort, or insecurity after setting a boundary? Today, we're talking about it.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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May 5, 2025
May 5, 2025
24 min
Today we're talking PETTY PEEVES.
Sometimes you just want to LET IT ALL OUT and recently I've started keeping a list of the things that get under my skin on a regular basis.
But how are all these things connected? And what does it say about me?
Any peeves you'd like to share? The pettier, the better.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Apr 28, 2025
Apr 28, 2025
36 min
My least favorite F Word, if we're honest.
Today we're talking about failure and how we can all reframe this very human experience into a potential positive. This is for you if:You're holding back on doing something because you're afraid of looking stupid.
You're biting your tongue in negotiations for fear of losing it all.
Or you've found yourself reliving a moment of failure over and over again, causing embarrassment, shame, or discomfort.
Referenced in the episode:Poker Power
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Apr 21, 2025
Apr 21, 2025
34 min
Are you stuck in an indecision spiral?
I'm sharing my method for decision making in my own life (the three-legged stool of decision making), as well as way to support others while they're spinning.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Apr 14, 2025
Apr 14, 2025
32 min
Honesty in relationships, in friendships, in career, and with yourself....
...Is a B!*CH.
Today we're addressing how honesty can make you a [insert favorite insult here], but it can also set you free. This has been a tough one for me to learn and it has certainly ruffled some feathers, but the more I am able to deliver honesty with kindness and care (and a backbone) the more free I am and the more authentic my professional and personal relationships become.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
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Apr 7, 2025
Apr 7, 2025
40 min
Today we're exploring the power of being a QUITTER.
When you know something isn't working for you. When your needs aren't being met. When the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
We're NOT talking about quitting because things are hard... it's about quitting when things aren't RIGHT.
AM I THE B!TCH? Series: Do you have a situation or story to share? Send us your stories that have left you wondering "wait... am I the b!tch?" and I'll discuss on the mic!
email: Admin@lizhake.com
Book Liz for your next event or workshop: www.lizhake.com
Follow on Instagram: @liz.hake
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